A Day in the Life of a Chaperone
Have you ever wondered what it's like to be a chaperone for the Miss Rodeo America Pageant? They were k ind enough to share a bit of what it's like with me, during one of the contestant's rehearsals.
There are seven Chaperones: Rita Carey, Kay Dennis, Jo Beth Steward, Clemie Jo Lamb, Chris Williams, Barb Williams, and Deborah Dilley. Each day, two chaperones are assigned the "wake up" chores - knocking on contestant's doors to make sure they are up and awake...5:30am. After that, it is a lot of planning and organizing - they do all of the thinking ahead so to make sure that the girls can get where they need to be in a timely manner. Prior to each event, the chaperones try and give them an idea of what they'll be doing, what to expect, what they can bring with them... so the contestants will feel at ease. Throughout the day they facilitate delivery & pickup of items such as gifts, clothing, and other necessities between the contestants and their families.
In the event that a contestant should feel sick during the Pageant, the chaperones make sure that the parents are notified, and a doctor is on call should the need arise. While the chaperones do not give out any medicines, they'll certainly make sure that a parent or director can be in touch with the contestant so they can get what she feels she needs. Chaperones say that as the week goes on, the incidences of illness become greater, as the girls start to get run down. (As well as the Chaperones!)
What has been the biggest change over the last 10-20 years from their perspective? The fellowship among the contestants. Because of today's technology and the travel schedule the girls have, most of them already know each other by the time they arrive at the Miss Rodeo America Pageant. They have developed friendships and they form bonds that will last a lifetime.
The best part of being a Chaperone? One said because it is getting together with the other Chaperones - that they keep in touch through the year and look so forward to getting together for the Pageant. Being a part of something big. As Barb pointed out, it is a huge sacrifice of time, but well worth it. It's obvious, even after a few minutes in their company, that this group definitely has a strong bond. I begged them to tell me some interesting stories... and lest I suffer retribution, I can only repeat this one:
The first year that Clemie Jo was a chaperone, she was trying so very hard to make sure she was doing a good job and being helpful for the girls. At one time there was a gal who would steam the girl's hats but she wasn't there so that duty fell to the Chaperones, who did have a steamer in one of the rooms. As it turned out, as Clemie is making the rounds, one gal needs her hat shaped. So, Clemie goes to the room where the steamer is to turn it on, and she fills it with water, then goes about her rounds while it's warming up. Well, in about ten minutes she returned with the hat, ready to steam it, and upon entering the room, found the "steamer" spitting a stream of water onto the carpet! Apparently... the reservoir was already full when she filled it!!!
The most challenging? All agreed it was the schedule... the logistics involved with getting that many girls organized and on time and where they need to be... figuring out the best route to take to get there... and every year there are always changes to the schedule so there is always something new to figure out.
The Chaperones have pretty much seen it all over the years, and they offered some advice for me to pass along for the contestants who will be coming along.
- Be yourself.
- Be physically prepared.
- Be very well rested when you get here and be on a good vitamin program.
- Be prepared to have FUN!
- Enjoy the moment and remember it's a once in a lifetime experience. It's not the end of your life if you don't win.
- The girl who wins is the one who consistently does well throughout the entire pageant.
- Focus on each individual event and when that event is over, start focusing on the next event.
This story was submitted by blogger Jody Rempel.
